When you think of a confident person, what comes to mind? My guess is it is a neurotypical idea of what confidence looks like, such as bold body language, assertive eye contact, and quick responses. If you’re Autistic, this idea of confidence may not resonate with you, but that doesn’t mean that Autistics don’t have […]
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For adults who are identified as Autistic later in life, realizing they are Autistic can be both a revelation and a challenge. The experience often comes with a complex mix of emotions, including relief, grief, and a re-examination of one’s past. It provides a new lens through which to understand lifelong behaviours, struggles, and strengths,
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Navigating life as an Autistic or AuDHDer (Autism + ADHD) involves a unique set of challenges in managing stress, energy levels, and emotional responses. One tool that can offer support is Dr. Stuart Shanker’s Self-Reg framework, a science-based approach to self-regulation. In this blog post, I’ll explore how this framework can be used by Autistics
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This post is the last in a six-part series on empathy from Autistic perspectives. In this post, we’ll explore the Double Empathy Problem. If you missed the previous five posts, you can find them here: Post 1: alexithymia, Post 2: cognitive empathy, Post 3: emotional empathy, Post 4: compassionate empathy, and Post 5: somatic empathy.
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This post is the fifth in a six-part series on empathy from Autistic perspectives. In this post, we’ll explore somatic empathy. If you missed the previous four posts, you can find them here: Post 1: alexithymia, Post 2: cognitive empathy, Post 3: emotional empathy, and Post 4: compassionate empathy. What is somatic empathy? Somatic empathy,
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This post is the fourth in a six-part series on empathy from Autistic perspectives. In this post, we’ll explore compassionate empathy. If you missed the previous three posts, you can find them here: Post 1: alexithymia, Post 2: cognitive empathy, and Post 3: emotional empathy. What is compassionate empathy? Compassionate empathy combines cognitive and emotional
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This post is the third in a six-part series on empathy from Autistic perspectives. In this post, we’ll explore emotional empathy. If you missed the previous two posts, you can find them here: Post 1: alexithymia and Post 2: cognitive empathy. What is emotional empathy? Emotional empathy, sometimes referred to as affective empathy, involves experiencing
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This post is the second in a six-part series on empathy from Autistic perspectives. In this post, we’ll explore cognitive empathy. Did you miss the first post on empathy and alexithymia? Find it here. The four types of empathy Often when people talk about empathy, they are referring to cognitive empathy. However, this is only
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This post is the first in a six-part series on empathy from Autistic perspectives. In this first post, we’ll explore empathy and its relationship to alexithymia.
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The word “Autism” comes with a lot of societal stigma and misinformation. When disclosing to someone that they are Autistic, many Autistics find that instead of getting an affirming response like “Congratulations!” they are told something like, “but you don’t look Autistic.” When this happens, it leaves Autistics with two choices: Spend time and emotional
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